There was no special attention given to anybody. Various players went to congratulate Howard, including Barkley. First Neville, then Jags, Heitinga, Fellaini, Baines, and then Barkley. Howard did pat his head in a 'no worries' manner, and Barkley half hugged him, in a 'cheers' kind of way, but it was no ceremony by any means. I only know this because I have just watched the highlights.
http://www.101greatgoals.com/videodisplay/blackburn-everton-motd-15333630/